I am writing this as a result of observing myself and others. Of course, everyone is not the same, and life goes in different ways.
Always check and ask about school and friends. People like to talk about what they like, 🤓. Learn to write why below...
I raised myself and my child playing outside with children. From the 1st to the 3rd grade, the child did his homework very intensively and enthusiastically. At his request, he was promoted to art, chess, and mathematics clubs every Saturday before noon. Oh yes, I was also going to a ballet course, pretty, kk, 😍 🥰. When I grew up, the Russian ballet teacher told me that it was very loud, 😅.
My father always tried to support me, but I think the fact that he was rarely at home was the beginning of my own independence. After graduating from elementary school, he was interested in various courses, and firmly settled on Aquarium and Computer 2, trying to do something about it at every opportunity.
A child's academic performance declined rapidly every year after entering Gymnasium. He later learned that his newfound friends were the wrong influence, but it was too late for the school. There was a problem with children and teachers being discriminated against by their friends and foreigners, so they hoped that the teachers would be changed for the first year, but it didn't work either. People are the same everywhere, they like to discriminate against groups. His desire to study at school was extinguished by his environment.
Changing schools was not an easy task either. If you had gone to high school, you would have had the opportunity to attend a high and intensive course as soon as possible and then enter a university without any complications. Well, everything happens instantly. At his request, he was transferred to my school, 😅 😂.
Looking back now, I wonder why I didn't transfer sooner, but I also feel relieved that it was meant to be. He has become an excellent student in his class, he is active in his studies and spends his free time with his friends. When I saw how he was interacting with me, I felt that he was satisfied and confident with himself.
What other feeling could be better for a father, 🤗.
PS: He still meets his friends. The most important thing is that they understand that it will help their cooperation by not forcing their personal problems a little too much. Now that I understand that, that's right, 😎.
